Sunday, June 28, 2009

28/6/2009 Should I ?

I had a best friend once, who I can share with and joke with, but then I have never learn to really appreciate this best friend of mine, I had hurt this friend again and again.

I have done a lot of damage unto her, and disappointed her a lot, I can't even count how many things I have done that had hurt her. I felt that I am just a loser, and have caused all the problems toward this friend.

I have asked myself, what can I do, what is one best thing that I can do to make this friend happy again, I kept asking myself.....

Maybe the best thing that I can do for this friend, to avoid this friend getting hurt again, is that I just kept myself away from her. I think I am just a failure in friendship, maybe I should just stay away from everybody else, especially from this friend, to prevent myself from hurting others that are close to me.

Should I? Should I just kept myself away from this friend in order to make this friend happy again?

5 comments:

Grace蕾蕾 said...

如果你们是朋友,我想你避开她,也只会让她更难过
因为你这样,更让她觉得你没有在珍惜这段友谊
现在补救应该还来得及,人与人相处是学问
要慢慢学习的
每个人都在学习吧
加油咯

Moh Herng said...

Hi bro,

Share with you this great hymn of all time.

What a friend we have in Jesus,
All our sins and griefs to bear!
What a privilege to carry
Everything to God in prayer!
Oh, what peace we often forfeit,
Oh, what needless pain we bear,
All because we do not carry
Everything to God in prayer!
Have we trials and temptations?
Is there trouble anywhere?
We should never be discouraged—
Take it to the Lord in prayer.
Can we find a friend so faithful,
Who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness;
Take it to the Lord in prayer.
Are we weak and heavy-laden,
Cumbered with a load of care?
Precious Savior, still our refuge—
Take it to the Lord in prayer.
Do thy friends despise, forsake thee?
Take it to the Lord in prayer!
In His arms He’ll take and shield thee,
Thou wilt find a solace there.
Blessed Savior, Thou hast promised
Thou wilt all our burdens bear;
May we ever, Lord, be bringing
All to Thee in earnest prayer.
Soon in glory bright, unclouded,
There will be no need for prayer—
Rapture, praise, and endless worship
Will be our sweet portion there.

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You are not a failure in relationship.
You have a lot of friends surrounding you.
What a friend we have in Jesus. There is no greater example to be someone's friend as who Jesus is to us.

Take care.!

Samuel said...

小蕾宝宝: Thanks for comfort ;)

Moh Herng: Thanks a lot for encouragement.

To everyone else, thanks a lot for your concern, I am fine now.

Siu KeOnG said...

=.=||| hello ah moh, long time see , so long words.

Sam, hmm..my advice try to make all friend balance, no matters what religion , skin, or language... just make it fair to everyone :)

thats all....ah moh english too geng, i dont understand..hahahah * run

Samuel said...

Siu Keong, thanks for concern :), Moh Herng's message is not too hard to understand actually :P

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